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  • Too Cool For School: With rue21

    Too Cool For School: With rue21

    “Lizzie McGuire, you’re an outfit repeater!”,Okay confession time! When I saw the Lizzie McGuire movie in theaters in 2003 at the tender age of 11, just at the end of 5th grade, i was shook by that line. Kate Sanders, Lizzie’s arch nemesis, exposed Lizzie for repeating an outfit at their 8th grade graduation and I remember thinking “wow, how embarrassing! I’ll never let that happen to me!”. From then on I made it my mission to be the most fashionable girl in the room and to never let anyone catch me repeating the same exact look twice! As a matter of fact, in 7th grade a kid in my math class said “I dont think I’ve ever seen you wear the same thing twice.” and I was SO proud. That wouldn’t be the last time I heard that! Obviously I know now, there’s nothing wrong with repeating an outfit, but try telling that to a little tween fashionista like 11 year old Lexi! 

    Lizzie Mcguire was a huge fashion inspiration for me for so many years, so I decided to create some looks inspired by the characters with rue21 pieces! Can you guess who is who? We’ve got Miranda, Kate Sanders,, and of course, Lizzie! They all had some overlapping style throughout the show and film, but in general, Miranda was spunky and edgy, Kate was preppy and girly, and Lizzie was groovy and sweet! So, for my Kate look, I choose this blue and grey argyle polo dress and little pink purse with butterfly chains! For the Miranda look, I opted for some black cargo pants, this red and black dragon top, and these badass sunglasses! Finally for Lizzie I channeled her style that I always felt reflected her personality the most, and choose a cream tank with ruching on the sides, printed flare pants, daisy earrings, and silk daisy bandana! I also styled a look that I feel represents my own style, with a pink bandana print dress and two tone denim jacket. I do think my “Lexi Look” has Lizzie vibes! You’ll notice I wore a pink tattoo choker and black slides for each look because those are both universal go-to staples for any early ‘00’s babe! 

    Gosh, highschool feels like a lifetime ago! And yet somehow, every year when August rolls around, all of those back-to-school memories coming flooding back! I remember shopping for my freshman year of high school and thinking to myself “who do I want to be for the next four years? I don’t know exactly what I was going for, but I decided on a denim mini skirt, black leggings, a black victorian-style top, and wedge sandals! I was convinced that this look was so mature and stylish, it would transform me into the very grown up highschooler I was trying to be. 

    But I learned eventually, that I would be a different person each year! In a lot of ways that’s still true today, because every year I grow older I learn more about who I am. My fashion choices may change with the times, and I’ll keep getting wiser and more confident in myself, but I’ll always be Me! And that’s exactly who I want to be! I wish I could go back and tell my younger self that she doesn’t need to try to be someone else, just the best version of herself! So whether you’re preparing for a new school year, a new job, or just a new season of life, I hope you remember that fall fashion statements are great, but being authentically yourself is that best statement of all! 

    rue21 has me pumped for fall! Y’all know I’m a summer queen, but if there’s one thing that can get me excited for fall, it’s fashion! I love that rue21 has all the newest trends and I think it’s so fun to try new things! rue21 is super affordable too, so I definitely recommend checking them out for all your back to school, fall wardrobe transition, or just closet refresher needs!

  • Tie Dye Summer: with rue21

    Tie Dye Summer: with rue21

    Tie Dye Summer: with rue21 

    Summer is here! Well…basically! Regardless, I’m in full summer mode and right now I’m on a major tie dye kick! Tie dye just screams summer to me. I don’t know if maybe it’s because I always made tie dye t-shirts at camp every summer or if it’s because it’s the ultimate fashion statement for a laidback, I’m-here-to-have-fun vibe. Whatever the reason, every summer I am decked out in tie dye everything! Last summer it was all about the matching tie dye sweatsuit sets because we were all stuck in the house watching Tiger King, making whipped coffee and trying to figure out Zoom. But thankfully this summer is full of hope and fun plans! So, while I do still love the matching sweatsuit sets, I’m excited to kick things up a notch! And rue21 is a one-stop-shop for all our tie dye needs at crazy affordable prices! 

    This first look is simple, comfy, and to the point! A sweet, little tie dye dress is an extremely underrated statement piece! This dress is super light weight which is perfect for the unbearable heat down here in the south. Even though this dress is comfortable and weather appropriate, making it a practical choice, the hot pink makes a bold statement! The tie spaghetti straps, ruching at the bust, and ruffle at the bottom of the skirt all give off a retro, early ‘00s vibe. I added white platform slides and pink, heart shaped sunnies, and now I’m getting major Elle Woods vibes from this look! A pink lemonade isn’t required to complete this look but, hey, it doesn’t hurt! 

    This next look is a game changer and a bunch of fashion firsts for me! This is my first matching denim set, and my first tie dye denim. I know this sounds dramatic, and maybe I feel dramatic because this look screams Sharpay Evans, but this outfit has CHANGED ME. Like, wow, who is she? Is this a practical, mature outfit? Yeah, no, not really. But I couldn’t care less! This is exactly the whimsical, vibrant statement I’m trying to make! When I wear this fit out in public, I want everyone to be like, “oh she definitely had a pink Razor flip phone in highschool and probably still owns roll-on glitter.” By the way, both of those statements are true but I’m sure none of you are surprised! A simple white tank and the same white platform slides and heart sunnies, and *boom*, instant Disney Channel “it” girl. Also, low-key, maybe high-key, feel like barbie in this ensemble. Y’all, rue21 has done it again and I’m fully obsessed with this fit. It’s officially going in my favorite outfits hall of fame! 

    This last look is all about color and comfort! Which, honestly, is probably a great way to describe my personal fashion philosophy. You might remember this blue bikini from last month’s vacation looks! Choosing a favorite suit from last month is tough, but I really think this one takes the cake. I love the full coverage of the bottoms, and equally love the less-than-full coverage of the top. Hey, what can I say? If you got it, flaunt it! The fabric is soft and stretchy which is always a plus when you plan to wear your swimsuit all day long. Which I definitely do, because I’m a total water baby! But those early summer nights get chilly and if you go inside for a drink or snack the air conditioning can be freezing, so I love an oversized, zip up hoodie as a cozy cover up! That may be a bit of an unpopular opinion, but don’t knock it till you try it! Those crochet dresses and sarongs are cute and perfect for midday heat. But when the sun goes down, you’ll be wishing you had a snuggly hoodie to wrap up in! Especially on those unseasonably cold days that randomly pop-up sometimes or if you live somewhere it doesn’t really get hot until later in the summer! Anyway, now that I’ve made my case for summer hoodies, rue21 has a great selection of tie dye sweatshirts, sweatpants, and shorts! You can mix and match, which I think is so fun! I guess we’ve kinda come full circle now with the tie dye sweats! 

    Tie dye is a fun and timeless trend that never really goes out of style. Summer is about having fun so don’t shy away from wearing fun clothes, even if it’s silly or “childish”. Life is short and summer is shorter! Check out the rue21 blog for more summer fashion inspo! Which look was your favorite? 

  • Spring Break Styles: With rue21

    Spring Break Styles: With rue21

    Spring Break road trip anyone!? I’m super excited because I partnered with rue21 to create some plus size looks with a spring break/pre-summer vibe! Ugh I miss the days when I could take a whole week off and go on vacation! Now, between my workload and the “panoramic”, I’m not exactly beach bound. But I am trying to prioritize some down time for fun outdoor activities in this beautiful spring sunshine! Last weekend my bestie and I took a mini road trip to a tulip field on a little farm in the country and this weekend I’m headed to my local botanical gardens! For my next micro-adventure, I think I’ll force my friends to go to the safari park 2 hours outside of nashville because there’s truly nothing more fun than feeding an emu from a bucket in a moving car! But if I’m gonna keep going on these little adventures all spring, I’ll need some comfy cute outfits perfect for car rides and activities! Thankfully rue21 has me covered…and for suuuper affordable prices! 

    This first look is an instant favorite, though I could probably say that about all of these looks! I have to cut to the chase and tell you, these leggings are hands down the MOST comfortable leggings I’ve ever put on my body in my entire life. This sounds dramatic, I know, but you have to understand, they are so soft, so stretchy, and cut just right and I actually wasn’t expecting to love them THIS much. I paired these dreamy leggings with this 90’s throwback tank top! The clouds and the butterfly, remind me of something I would have worn when I was 12 and hanestly, I love it. I think it’s so fun that 90’s styles are so on trend right now! This denim jacket is perfect because it’s a bit longer than most, which is perfect for covering my bum and keeping me warm when the air conditioner is blasting or the nights get chilly! This butterfly ball cap and heart shaped sunglasses are both the perfect combination of whimsical and practical (which I definitely identify with) so I decided to wear them with all of my looks! I also opted to wear these white sandals with each look because they’re so versatile, and super comfortable! 

    This little tie dye number is like a cross between a mini dress and an oversized sweatshirt! I could see myself wearing this dress as a pool or beach cover up! I personally have long legs, so to wear it out and about, I think next time I’ll pair it with leggings or bike shorts! Since we are all friends here, I’ll tell you the whole truth: the night after this photoshoot I actually wore this dress to bed. It was just too comfortable to take off! 

    Speaking of bike shorts and tie dye, this look is definitely going to be a wardrobe staple for me! I was slow to get on the bike short bandwagon that began last summer but I’m here now and I’m loving it! These bike shorts are light weight and have lots of stretch so you don’t have that restrictive feeling or sweaty effect like with other pairs. This sweatshirt reminds me of a more grown-up, stylish version of a sweatshirt I’d buy at a beach shop on Spring Break in high school! I could totally see myself dressing this sweatshirt up with jeans and gold jewelry for margarita on a patio or with a denim skirt and cowgirl boots for a Nashville vibe! 

    Now all I need is one of those hair wraps (with storing and beads, remember!?) and a puka shell necklace and I’m ready for Spring Break! For more inspo to get you in the Spring Break mood or plan for summer, check out the rue21 blog! Let me know which look is your favorite over on Instagram!

  • Finally, Jeans That FIT!

    Finally, Jeans That FIT!

    If I said these Eloquii bellbottom jeans changed my life would that be dramatic? Yes. And they dramatically changed my life so…I said what I said💁🏼‍♀️💁🏼‍♀️💁🏼‍♀️

    Shopping for jeans is really freaking hard! Not a lot of jeans are cut for body types with any amount of curve so when you’re an “apple-glass” like me, curvy all over, it’s especially tricky! 

    I have a vivid memory of being 14 years old in the dressing room of the Gap trying on every style of jeans they had in my size, (mot much) and eventually falling to the ground, tears rolling down my cheeks, feeling totally defeated. I felt like a freak of nature who doesn’t deserve clothes that fit. 

     Like a cheesy coming-of-age film, the song The Middle by Jimmy Eat World started playing overhead on the radio. The words really resonated with me, as corny as it sounds! “It just take some time, little girl. you’re in the middle of the ride. everything will be just fine, everything will be all right.” I sat there wondering when things will feel all right and when I would feel fine. 

    The kicker is, at the time I was only a size 14. But in 2006 the trend was low rise and slim cut and for a girl with a lot of junk in the trunk, thick thighs, and curvy hips and belly, that just wasn’t right for me. Don’t get me wrong, I believe any body type can wear any style! The key is that you feel comfortable. And the key to everyone having the opportunity to feel comfortable is having OPTIONS and back then, there weren’t many options for plus sizes. 

    I’m so grateful that 15 years later (and many body changes later), there are more options for different body types. We still have a long way to go with inclusive fashion, but we’ve come so far! 

    These jeans come in three different cuts: classic (self-explanatory) Gena (for a curvy midsection), and viola (for curvy hips). I am wearing the Gena in a 24 and I find it super generous in size! The future of inclusive fashion is sizing based on body type and custom options. I’m really pleased to see brands like Eloquii offering more inclusive sizing and I look forward to seeing more pieces like this! These are normally $120 but today they’re on sale for $49! You can click here to shop these jeans (I do make a modest commission at no extra cost to you and I deeply appreciate you shopping with me!). This look was graciously gifted by Eloquii for review. As always, my opinions are my own.

    • Spring Fashion Series With rue21 Part One: Mad For Plaid

      Spring Fashion Series With rue21 Part One: Mad For Plaid

      YOU GUYS…Spring is just around the corner! Can I get an “AMEN!” *cue hallelujah chorus*! As the snow and ice melts and the flowers start to bloom it’s time to pack up those coats and sweaters to make room for some new Spring styles! I’ve partnered with my friends over at rue21 to show you my favorite trends for Spring! This first installment of my Spring Style With rue21 series focuses on pastels, plaid, and getting back in touch with your inner school-girl “it” girl! I’m talking Clueless, “As if!”, Mean Girls, “so fetch”, captain of the cheer squad, “bring it on” vibes! Got it? Don’t got it? Don’t worry! Keeping reading, I’ve got your back (and links for easy peasy, budget friendly impulse purchases)!

      Plaid tennis skirts were a go-to wardrobe staple in the 90’s and I’m so excited to see this trend making the rounds again! Plaid is still a huge fixture of Fall and Winter fashion but I think it’s a super underrated pattern for the warmer months! Neutral and pastel colors instantly turn plaid from cozy to fresh! A plaid skirt is definitely a youthful look, and you can play up the Hit Me Baby One More Time, Britney vibes with pigtails and tied up button down shirts! But the plaid skirt look can also be matured a bit with a blazer, heels, or a blouse. For my rue21 plaid skirt looks I personally leaned into the youthful side of this trend but I think these pieces are super versatile and I’m excited to style them a bunch of different ways throughout the season! 

      Speaking of versatile, let’s start with this black plaid tennis skirt! It’s such a great staple piece because it can be worn in literally any season! It can be dressed up or down and even is a great jumping off point for a lot of DIY costumes or cosplays! Basically what I’m trying to say is, if you don’t currently have a black plaid skirt in your closet what the heck are you doing?! Okay so, for this look I kept it pretty simple, pairing my black plaid skirt with a black t-shirt. I opted for pigtails with faux fur scrunchies and I think it’s safe to say, I’m totally ready for cheer squad tryouts! I think The next time I wear this skirt, I’ll pair with a solid color tank top and a denim jacket on top! 

      A Neutral plaid skirt is versatile but a pastel plaid skirt adds that extra element of sass so you can really tap into your inner Regina George! This fabulous pink plaid tennis skirt paired perfectly with this soft pink cardigan. I added a pink terry bucket hat for a major throwback and I almost felt too trendy! It’s seriously growing on me and I definitely see more bucket hats in my future! This pink plaid skirt and sweater combo is a fun and flirty look and definitely one of my favorites! I would love to see this skirt with a white button down shirt tied in the front! I also think I need butterfly clips for that look! 

      Now that we’ve fully covered skirts, lets launch right into a trickier subject: plaid dresses! I’ve heard so many opinions about plaid dresses being too loud and busy for plus size folks and I will not stand for it! First of all, what’s wrong with being loud and busy?! But more importantly, I think being afraid of brightly colored patterned pieces is directly related to society preferring that us plus size babes hide ourselves in a corner away from the spotlight. No ma’am, not now not ever again! So bring on the vibrant colors and pretty plaids! 

      I am absolutely obsessed with this periwinkle and pink plaid matching dress and cardigan set! In this fit I feel like Cher Horowitz so I had to pair this set with a headband! I think a matching set is automatically fashion forward and makes me feel like i have my life together! If the colors are a bit much for ya, or you just want a more understated vibe, this set does come in taupe which is so chic! If I were styling the taupe I think I’d opt for a pop of red for my accessories for a high-end designer look! 

      Okay so hear me out. The skirtall is a grossly overlooked alternative to the very popular overall trend! Overalls aren’t for me, I just don’t feel my best in them, but I love the playful spring vibe that the overall style accomplishes. I know skirtalls have a very cathoilic school girl reputation, but I believe they are the answer to participating in the spring overall trend for those of us who prefer skirts! This blue skirtall is such a lovely shade and paired with this white button down,actually gives me some modern Alic in Wonderland vibes (and maybe even Dorothy from Wizard of Oz or Belle from the opening scene of Beauty and the Beast)! Fairy Tails aside this look is perfect for transitioning from winter to spring and most importantly…IT HAS POCKETS! Pockets are the holy grail and I was sooo stoked about this! If blue isn’t your hue, rue21 has plaid skirtalls and plaid dresses in pink, black, and yellow too!  

      What are your favorite tried and true Spring pieces? What new trends or must-have pieces do you have your eye on for Spring? I plan on sharing tons more Spring fashion inspo so please let me know what you want to see from me! I’m seeing lots of butterflies, tie dye, and ruching and I’m loving it! I’ll get to work on that but in the meantime, check out the rue21 blog for more Spring trends and the newest arrivals!

    • Deep Discounts on Fine Jewelry with ShopLC

      Deep Discounts on Fine Jewelry with ShopLC

      OKAY WAIT: If you don’t wanna read this and you just wanna shop for fine jewelry at deep discounts click this link and use code LexiN20 to save 20% off. Thank me later!

      February is a big month around here because my birthday is the 11th, V-Day is the 14th, and my anniversary is the 22nd! And to be frank…this month hurts our bank account! I’m usually fine with one combo gift to try to be budget friendly, but this year I’m super excited (and so is my husband’s wallet) to partner with my friends at ShopLC and share some HEAVILY discounted fine jewelry! Jackpot!

      ShopLC cuts out the middleman and manufactures their jewelry themselves. This means major savings for us! This gorgeous necklace is platinum over sterling silver, and Swarovski zirconia and retails at approx. $329.99. On the ShopLC website it’s only $79.99! They have high ticket items like engagement rings and solid gold jewelry, as well as more fashion jewelry and everything in between. All for prices that make you and your Valentine VERY happy! 

      For my birthday I always wanna be as sparkly as possible! I’m talking body glitter, a tiara, and major bling! So these emerald and platinum over sterling silver hoops are PERFECT! They retail at approx. $729.99 but on the ShopLC website they are only $99.99! What I love about these hoops are the emeralds on the inside, so that you’re seeing jewels from all angles! I love these earrings because they are a great special occasion piece but I totally feel like I can wear them with a casual outfit for a pop of color! I mean, hoops go with everything, ya know? But if hoops aren’t your thing, ShopLC  literally has thousands of options from $3.00-$5,000.00! They actually have a Swarovski crystal version of these earrings (and other colors) for only $9.99! They truly have something for every style and budget!

      One of my anniversary wishes was adding an anniversary band to my bridal set! Y’all know I LOVE pink so you can imagine my excitement when I came across this pink tourmaline band in platinum over sterling silver! I literally squealed when I saw it retailed at approx. $289.99 and on the ShopLC website it’s only…$39.99!!!! At these prices I can have an anniversary band for every day of the week! This ring is too sparkly and looks beautiful with my set and also on its own! I’ve never been one for traditional bridal sets, and love being able to switch things up and have fun with my rings! 

      When Will and I got married on 2/22/2020 last year, it was before 2020 went..well..bananas (to put it politely lol). This first year of marriage has been a challenge because 2020 was a challenging year overall! Will has been my calm through the storm and has been the most supportive and patient partner I could ask for and I feel so lucky! I’m not easy to quarantine with! lol! Needless to say, we are CELEBRATING the beginning of year 2! No matter your reason for celebrating, ShopLC has something beautiful and affordable for every occasion!

      And as if you needed another reason to love them, ShopLC partners with No Kids Hungry to provide meals with each purchase! You can save extra 20% off your purchase with code LexiN20 so check them out now! Happy shopping!

    • Y2K Valentine’s Day With rue21

      Y2K Valentine’s Day With rue21

      Got a hot date for Valentine’s Day? Well whether you’re boo’d up, celebrating Galentine’s Day with your clique, or pampering you’re #1 (YOU!), rue21 has the perfect outfit for you! Okay, maybe I’m a bit early, but I’m just SO excited for Valentine’s Day! I partnered with my friends at rue21 and styled a couple of  Valentine’s Day inspired looks from rue21 that have me feeling super festive! I’m a Valentine baby, my birthday is February 11th, so I’ve always felt like Valentine’s day celebrations were an extension of Lexi Day! Also the Valentine’s Day aesthetic of pink & red, sparkles, champagne, jewelry, stuffed animals and chocolates…I mean, that’s basically all my favorite stuff! I’m also obsessed with the post-Y2K/McBling fashion revival (I hope velour tracksuits never go out of style again because they are So comfy!) so that’s where I got my inspo for these looks! Maybe I just wanna relive my childhood or something, but late 90’s and early 00’s fashion is my absolute favorite! Give me inflatable furniture and cover everything in rhinestones please! All I’m missing now are some butterfly clips but I’m sure I’ll find those at rue21 too! Shopping with rue21 keeps me up to date on what’s currently in fashion because they always have the latest trends! I’m SO pumped to see late 90’s early 00’s styles making the rounds again and gracing the racks of rue21 (or like…online, you get what I mean)! 

      This Y2K/McBling era look is styled after a late 90’s fashion moment that will always have my heart! I styled this outfit with inspiration from the 1998 Disney film, My Date With The President’s Daughter! 6 year old Lexi wanted that pink velor dress SO badly and I’m so glad I can honor her by rocking this one! As a nod to the dreamy Will Friedle (who plays Duncan), I paired this little pink number with a leather jacket for a good-girl-goes-bad look! No 90’s date night outfit is complete without square toe block heel mules! I added some gold hoops and a gold braided rhinestone choker for an extra element of bling! This look is so fun and flirty, perfect for a Valentines date! As cheesy as it sounds, when I was younger, this is exactly how I imagined I would dress as a fashionable and confident woman! There’s something really satisfying about wearing an outfit that would make little you say “wow she’s cool!”.  For me, this new year is going to be all about honoring my inner child because I turn 29 next month (yikes!) and I feel like it’s a great way to celebrate the end of my 20’s! I also think back on Little Lexi’s fashion dreams and all the things I was excited to wear when I was a grown up with a credit card! So Little Lexi is doing my shopping with me this year and I’m gonna have fun with my fashion and make her proud! 

      Let’s flash forward a few years to this next look, inspired by every early-mid 00’s “It Girl” who wore the iconic velour tracksuit! Everyone who was anyone wore a velour tracksuit, from Paris Hilton to Beyonce to Hillary Duff! And let’s not forget when the Cheetah Girls wore matching velour tracksuits while performing in the streets of Manhattan in their debut film (a cinematic masterpiece if you ask me)! This pink velour tracksuit from rue21 is so comfy and soft, I genuinely never want to take it off! In fact, if I’m being 100% honest with you, I’ve worn it four times already and I’m literally wearing it as I write this blog post! It made all of my McBling- “That’s Hot”-Razor-flip-phone dreams come true! I paired it with this cute babydoll T-shirt with rhinestones in the shape of a heart…with devil horns! This fit screams “Galentine’s Day!” and would be just the thing to wear for a Mean Girls, Legally Blonde, Lizzie McGuire Movie marathon at your bff’s house! May I also suggest cookie dough and cosmos!? Obviously I wore my fabulous gold hoops and gold braided rhinestone choker because the bling never stops! 

      If last year’s quarantine taught me anything, it’s that fashion rules are fake! Sweatpants are real pants, bras are optional, and time is a social construct! I’m taking those lessons with me into this new year and instead of worrying about wearing the “right” thing, wearing what makes me happy! If I want to be hot pink and bling bling, I absolutely will! If i want to wear a velour tracksuit 4 days a week, I will just have to order one in every color! I hope y’all got a kick outta these fun throwback inspired Valentine’s Day looks from rue21! For more Valentine’s Day inspo, check out the rue21 blog! I’d love to hear from y’all about your favorite fashion moments from the Y2K/McBling era and what you’d like to try now that it’s back! Head over to my instagram and let me know! 

    • Hi, I’m Lexi…

      Hey y’all, I‘m Lexi! 

      I haven’t done an introduction in a while so I wanted to hop on here and say howdy or whatever lol! Lot’s of new faces here sooo let’s get to know each other! 

      I’m 28, but my birthday is next month (I’m an aquarius. it all makes sense now, right?) so I’m basically 29! I’m married to the sweetest man alive ( barf, I know) and our one year anniversary is next month too! Someone pray for this man because throw Valentine’s Day in there too and february is about to steal his whole paycheck. I would, but I’m agnostic lol. 

      We have two weird lil dogs, Hans and Mandi Moore and they have their own story highlight but not their own IG because I’m not a freak. I mean, they sleep in the bed with me and I apologize when they fuss at me for getting in their way but…that’s not the point! 

      This is getting long so let’s switch gears here. Rapid fire: I’m an actress/influencer and (pre pandemic) pre-school teacher, Nashville native, pansexual, fat (obvi lol), liberal (like ACAB liberal, Not “liberal”), I have severe ADHD among other shenanigans going on up there, I swear often, rely on unhealthy coping mechanisms such as over caffinating and retail therapy, and I would kill a man with my bare hands for even looking sideways at my baby (16 y.o.) sister because I’ve got nothin to lose and she’s literal baby jesus to me. Did I mention I’m agnostic? I was raised in Nashville but my family is from boston and that wear I learned to talk and be a sentient being so that means i say things like “bless her fuckin heart”. 

      In this house we are healing from past traumas, learning to accept our bodies, speaking our mind, manifesting our destiny, and looking fabulous doing it! Follow me on Instagram ( @lexinimmo ) for daily posts about all things body love, mental health, fat fashion, and lifestyle. Follow me on TikTok ( @lexinimmo ) where I post all day and let loose! Check out my acting work and everything else I’m up to here! Nice to meet ya!

    • My Winter Picks: With rue21

      Winter can be tough because it’s cold and dark and wet. Huge bummer! Something that carries me through the bummer of winter are the cute clothes and accessories! Summer is so hot I don’t wanna layer or even wear shoes lol. So when it gets cold outside I get excited to pull out the boots and jackets! My favorite place to find super affordable and trendy fashion and accessories is rue21! 

      I partnered with my friends at rue21 to show you my top two winter looks, one cozy and one trendy! My cozy look is perfect for being comfy and cute at home, or on your work or family holiday zoom party! My trendy look is a sexier, 90’s throwback which is perfect for a facetime date, or filming TikToks. Don’t lie, you know you wanna! The accessories for both for both of these looks also make awesome gifts if you’re looking for a last minute, or belated holiday gift! 

      My cozy look starts with this Oatmeal Heather Corset Waist Hacci Knit Dress ($21.99- almost sold out). I cannot praise this dress enough. I’ve literally worn it three times already because it’s sooo comfortable. This dress is super soft (it almost feels like cashmere) and the cut and stretch make it insanely comfy, even for lounging! I love pieces like this because I can be snug but look cute and instantly put together! I paired it with a pair of Taupe Faux Fur Fold Over Short Cozy Boots ($12.99). These boots are lightweight and an affordable alternative to pricier brands. The insides are plush and I could wear them all day! I added Gold Hoops which come in a 7-pack of different styles ($7.99) and these White Faux Fur Over Sized Hair Clips ($5.99) to add a feminine touch and make the look a little dressier! The total for this whole outfit was under $50, which is unbeatable!

      For this 90’s throwback I went with all black pieces but mixed up the textures for a fun look! This Faux Fur Trim Bungee Tank Top ($19.99) is such a fun addition to my wardrobe and I can’t wait to match it with so many other things! This Black Ruched Side Slit Midi Skirt ($22.99) is stretchy so you get that body con silhouette while also being able to sit easily! I love the ruching on the sides for a sexy vibe! I topped it with this Faux Leather Shirt Jacket ($16.49) and i’m totally obsessed with it! This is basically a faux leather button down shirt and is the perfect solution for when you want to add a leather jacket for the aesthetic but don’t want to burn up wearing leather indoors. Its lightweight and even has a bit of stretch! I’d love to try tying it up to Britney Spears style next time! For accessories I went bananas lol! I just can’t help myself because rue21 has such low prices I can have it all! These Butterfly Wing Lense Sunglasses ($7.99) are so fun and I feel like a TikTok star (joking!…sorta..)! I’m wearing Gold Hoops again because they are classic, and I paired them with this Gold “Hot Girl” Necklace ($4.99) because who doesn’t love Megan Thee Stallion? I put these Scrunchies ($6.99 for a pack of 3) on my wrists because not only are they great to have when I need to throw my hair up but they make a cute accessory! The total for this look, accessories and all, was less than $89!

      If any of these pieces jumped out at you, you should jump on it because rue21 changes their collections up pretty often to keep things fresh, and I don’t want you to miss out! Not exactly what you’re looking for? No worries! rue21 has TONS more to choose from on their website. You can also find more inspo on their blog! Happy holidays, stay safe and stay warm! 

    • My Holiday Wish List: With rue21

      My Holiday Wish List: With rue21

      I think it’s safe to say, a lot of us are ballin’ on a budget this holiday season, especially after the wild year we’ve had! I’m sure many of you, like me, still want to spread some holiday cheer and spoil your loved ones (and yourself!). Well we are in luck because rue21 is offering amazing Black Friday deals with 40% off of their already affordable prices! I’m a Black Friday super fan, so I’m giving you an early look at my rue21 wish list!

      Who doesn’t love cozy gifts? Blankets, slippers and socks make perfect gifts for everyone on your list and rue21 is the perfect one-stop-shop for all things cozy! In my family we always open one gift on Christmas Eve and it’s always pajamas. I love this tradition because you can never have too many jammies! There is a wide selection available at rue21 but for my wish list I chose this comfy maroon sherpa jacket and matching sherpa shorts. They are insanely soft! I also got some festive Christmas pajamas for my dogs Hans and Mandi Moore! If your dog or cat is a good sport like mine are, I highly recommend dressing them in adorable rue21 pajamas for a boost of serotonin! Like I said, you can never have enough pajamas, so I also had to have these penguin pj’s. I paired them with this fuzzy blue sweater that I plan to wear as lounge wear and street wear! If you’ve been following me for a while, you know that I have a huge obsession with penguins (I have a whole IG highlight dedicated to penguins) so I also chose this penguin blanket and socks! I love winter holiday season because it’s the time of year when there is an abundance of penguin swag!

      While rue21 has plenty gifts for the guys in your life, they really pop off when it comes to their girly and glam gifts! To make gift giving even easier, rue21 has the perfect gifts sets! It was so hard to choose but I decided on lipgloss and lashes gift sets! I love the shiny packaging and the price point is pretty great perk as well! The only thing I love more that beauty products is accessories, and rue21 definitely has us covered there. You can always find classic, everyday pieces like a black headband or CZ stud earrings but I love that rue21 always has the latest trends too! Whenever I see trendy statement pieces online I go straight rue21 because I know they’ll have it. For my wish list I was on the hunt for three different styles of earrings that I’ve seen everyone wearing on TikTok and rue21 had a set of earrings with all three! If there is a teenager in your life you find hard to shop for, I doubt you can wrong with accessories from rue21. I’m 28 but my sister is 16 and keeps me young, lol!

      Okay so this is less fun and exciting, but everyone needs the basics. The holidays are a great time to receive goodies but it’s also super helpful to recite practical gifts like masks, socks, t shirts, jeans, and leggings. If you want to keep things festive but also functional, rue21 has a great selection of hats, gloves, and scarves that will certainly come in handy durning these winter months. These are also great gift ideas for the people on your list who are tricky to shop for. If you’re like me, you might even want to stock up for yourself and buy extras to donate to your local shelters!more gift ideas

      For more gift and stocking stuffer ideas, check out the rue21 blog! Don’t miss out on the Black Friday 40% off deals but do stay tuned for an update on Cyber Monday deals!